Coming soon: Why Avoidants Choose Distance Over Pursuit

The Influence of Subconscious Fears on Relational Behavior

Not all relational patterns are fully conscious, yet they are rarely accidental. Fears may be subconscious; behavior is not. The discomfort that accompanies closeness can shape how people move toward or away from connection. In an earlier piece, I explored how avoidants create distance in relationships; this blog follows up by examining why distance often feels more manageable than pursuit, particularly when emotional stakes rise.